Next Step
Notes and Observations
She wants to write her story. She calls me at work to share the news.
– Dad, I want to write a story about my cancer. Will you help me?
Later, when I am home, she tells me more. She wants to write a story about what’s happened to her. She wants to start at the beginning, when the headaches arrived. She tells me this with impeccable clarity. There is none of the crazy logic she sometimes employs. Her eyes pierce me. She means this.
I have an idea–an idea for what this site could be. I think it could be a place where kids like Jordan share their stories. Writers, photographers and other supporters could help them do it. We could help them tell their stories and coach them to highlight the moments and memories that keep them going. I don’t know how this would work, but I am inspired by Jordan’s desire to write. I have thought about it constantly since she dropped it on me so plainly, so honestly.
I think this is an extraordinary idea. Kudos to Jordan. It will not only afford her the opportunity to creatively explore how she expresses the feelings that populate her various experiences, but it can also serve as a catalyst for others to bring their internal reactions to the fore and give identity to feelings–they can become concrete and relatable. What were previously only vague and shadowy internal misgivings can be out in front and more easily addressed.
The ability to communicate these feelings can then empower the story teller while building a bridge from one person’s spirit to another.
This prospect of providing a forum which encourages other kids to share their stories is inspired. As they share what brings them strength they are feeding the strength in others. Everyone wins.
Gram J gives a big Thumbs-Up!
Comment by Jean — March 13, 2009 @ 8:27 am
How truly exciting! I’m glad to hear that her cancer has not showed its ugly face. I’m praying for her and the whole family. As far as her writing her own story. It would be fascinating to hear “cancer, a children’s story.” Oh I would love to read the book and know her thoughts. I know yours from what you’ve written, now to know her side of the story.. How wonderful… Keep us posted on how the book is coming along…
Thank you,
Elizabeth
Comment by Elizabeth — March 13, 2009 @ 12:18 pm
Hi – I came across your website because you used my flickr photo (210 with coke truck.)
I am sorry to hear about all Jordan has been through. She sounds like a great kid. Does she have a caringbridge site? We have been journaling on ours as our daughter struggled with kidney failure. You can see it here http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/jennafranks – she can a few photos too, and there’s a guestbook for people to leave messages.
Best wishes to Jordan and your family.
Karol
Comment by Karol — March 15, 2009 @ 12:20 am
Go for it! Jordan, you have a friendly supporter all the way over in Australia on your side. Go for it!
I’ve added links etc on my blog to your blog here, so I can encourage my blog friends to find and discover your amazing story.
Cyalayta
Mal
Comment by Mal — March 16, 2009 @ 4:12 pm